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Lou Decruss
Joined: 27 Sep 2007 Posts: 219
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 9:54 pm Post subject: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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I had planned on making mashed potato cakes coated in panko for part
of dinner last night. Late in the afternoon I asked Louise if she
minded if I just made baked spuds. She looked disappointed, but said
ok.
So Louise started making "Lou's World Famous Peanut Butter Rice
Krispies Treats Topped With Chocolate." When it was time to add the
rice krispies she asked me to take over. She never gets the density
right.
Then Louise asked me if I wanted baked potatoes because I didn't want
to peel them. The obvious answer was yes. She asked if I wanted her
to peel them. So she peeled and boiled, and I riced and made the
cakes.
Later we laughed at how well we compliment each other in the kitchen.
I cook all the meat. She makes comfort food and sometimes the side
dishes. Her mac-n-cheese is better than mine. She gets the butter
amount right for grilled cheese, but asks me to cut them. She always
wants me to plate our meals. We share cleanup chores. She has more
patience with peeling and prepping things, but can't make a sauce.
She makes great pumpkin and chocolate/banana rolls, but I'd never
attempt one. We're a good kitchen team.
So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
This may not be the best topic for a thread, but at least it's on
topic.
Lou
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Felice
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 12
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:06 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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"Lou Decruss" wrote in message @4ax.com...
>I had planned on making mashed potato cakes coated in panko for part
> of dinner last night. Late in the afternoon I asked Louise if she
> minded if I just made baked spuds. She looked disappointed, but said
> ok.
>
> So Louise started making "Lou's World Famous Peanut Butter Rice
> Krispies Treats Topped With Chocolate." When it was time to add the
> rice krispies she asked me to take over. She never gets the density
> right.
>
> Then Louise asked me if I wanted baked potatoes because I didn't want
> to peel them. The obvious answer was yes. She asked if I wanted her
> to peel them. So she peeled and boiled, and I riced and made the
> cakes.
>
> Later we laughed at how well we compliment each other in the kitchen.
> I cook all the meat. She makes comfort food and sometimes the side
> dishes. Her mac-n-cheese is better than mine. She gets the butter
> amount right for grilled cheese, but asks me to cut them. She always
> wants me to plate our meals. We share cleanup chores. She has more
> patience with peeling and prepping things, but can't make a sauce.
> She makes great pumpkin and chocolate/banana rolls, but I'd never
> attempt one. We're a good kitchen team.
>
> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
>
> This may not be the best topic for a thread, but at least it's on
> topic.
>
> Lou
We shared a kitchen for almost 50 years, most of them under a sign that read
"This is an Equal Opportunity Kitchen". Himself specialized in oven work and
my forte was the stovetop, but either of us could step in for the other. If
I worked late, he did dinner; if he got behind on the Christmas cookies, I
pitched in. But best of all, he always unloaded the dishwasher.
I think our daughters were the only ones in their schools who received
goodie boxes from Dad.
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The Ranger
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 78
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 2:08 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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Lou Decruss wrote in message @4ax.com...
[snip]
> So assuming most readers here are the primary
> household cook...What things to you have your
> spouse/significant other help you out with?
Baking is SWMBO's domain. I can but, as you pointed out in your
article, "she gets the butter amount right." I'll clean-up if
she bakes. Daughter-unit Alpha is her second. Daughter-unit
Beta and Spawn are my seconds. We're more "free-spirited" when
viewing recipes. "Good enough" is often heard when we're
cooking.
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Melba's Jammin'
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 160
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:12 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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In article ,
Lou Decruss wrote:
> Later we laughed at how well we compliment each other in the kitchen.
I find too many compliments can actually be distracting from the task at
hand, Lou. One compliments the other and the complimentee has to say
thank you and reciprocate with a compliment to the original complimenter
and then the OC has to acknowledge the compliment and then pretty soon
you've forgotten if you added the hot sauce or not and so you put some
in and then you ruin the taste and burn your mouth. . . .
Having a cooking whose skill complement your own, though -- now that's a
real treat! Kind of like when, at a potluck, everyone gets to bring
what they most like to prepare and by some miracle all the dishes
complement each other. It's a murrcle!! "-)
> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
Staying the hell out of my way when I'm cooking. If you have to hang
out in the kitchen while I'm cooking, just sit on the chair and look
pretty. Do not pace back and forth while you're talking. If you want
to help, set the table and pour the cold beverages a bit in advance, not
when I'm putting the serving dishes on the table, please.
I'm a benevolent dictator.
> This may not be the best topic for a thread, but at least it's on
> topic.
Hear, hear!
> Lou
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-Barb, Mother Superior, HOSSSPoJ
http://www.jamlady.eboard.com;pics of my no-knead bread posted
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kilikini
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 288
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:18 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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Lou Decruss wrote:
> I had planned on making mashed potato cakes coated in panko for part
> of dinner last night. Late in the afternoon I asked Louise if she
> minded if I just made baked spuds. She looked disappointed, but said
> ok.
>
> So Louise started making "Lou's World Famous Peanut Butter Rice
> Krispies Treats Topped With Chocolate." When it was time to add the
> rice krispies she asked me to take over. She never gets the density
> right.
>
> Then Louise asked me if I wanted baked potatoes because I didn't want
> to peel them. The obvious answer was yes. She asked if I wanted her
> to peel them. So she peeled and boiled, and I riced and made the
> cakes.
>
> Later we laughed at how well we compliment each other in the kitchen.
> I cook all the meat. She makes comfort food and sometimes the side
> dishes. Her mac-n-cheese is better than mine. She gets the butter
> amount right for grilled cheese, but asks me to cut them. She always
> wants me to plate our meals. We share cleanup chores. She has more
> patience with peeling and prepping things, but can't make a sauce.
> She makes great pumpkin and chocolate/banana rolls, but I'd never
> attempt one. We're a good kitchen team.
>
> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
>
> This may not be the best topic for a thread, but at least it's on
> topic.
>
> Lou
TFM® generally cooks the meat because I don't eat it and that way he can
season it how he likes. I'll make potatoes, rice or pasta for myself,
because the hubby is low-carbing it and won't eat anything like that. I
steam the veggies, we both eat those, because he forgets to check on them
and they always get overdone. I always make breakfast for Allan, even
though I don't do breakfast. LOL. I never understood the concept of
jumping up out of bed and consuming an omelette and a few slices of bacon
first thing. Give me a few hours to work up an appetite!
On the weekends or days there isn't any work (which is all too often
lately), it's a whole different ballgame. All I hear, all day, is "FEED
ME"! He watches movies on the computer or plays solitaire on the computer
while I fix him sandwiches, relish plates with lots of fresh veggies (he's a
veggie fiend), slices of cheese, deviled eggs - he grazes *all* day. It's
become kind of our joke - "FEED ME". It annoys the heck out of me, and he
knows it which is way he says it, but I do it because he's taken care of me,
without fail.
Since we don't or can't eat any of the same foods other than vegetables, we
pretty much cook two separate meals. I prefer to eat dinner around
5:00-ish, if I'm even hungry, and TFM® likes to eat around 9:00pm. Yes,
we're a strange couple, but it has slowly worked out. I had to understand
his eating habits and he had to learn to accept mine.
Oh, and, I do 98% of all the clean-up.
OB: Since whole chickens are still on sale at Winn-Dixie for $.69/lb, we
got a couple of them. TFM® is going to chop one up and fry it and then
roast the other. I'm going to make a tomato sauce to go over some bowtie
pasta. Unfortunately, though, we're out of veggies. Allan's just going to
have to eat meat, glorious meat. :~)
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Goomba38
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 234
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:25 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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Lou Decruss wrote:
> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
>
My husband cooks as much as I do these days. He was a pretty uninspired
diner/cook when we married and apparently I introduced him to many new
things. He eats everything put before him with an open mind and isn't
the least bit picky, thank God.
We're pretty good at whipping the house into order for entertaining,
pitching in with food prep, and cleaning up after dinners and parties.
What impresses me is that I might (or did at first) suggest what needed
to be done, he is long past needing that guidance now. For the standard
weeknight plan it has evolved unspoken that one of us cooks and the
other cleans. And his cooking skills have grown enormously over the
years I've known him.
And if ever there is something of a nuisance task or errand I don't want
to do, as long as I'm in the kitchen cooking when I ask-I can ask get
him to do almost anything I want!
Manipulative? Sure...but he seems not to mind. |
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Melba's Jammin'
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 160
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 5:26 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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In article ,
"Felice" wrote:
> pitched in. But best of all, he always unloaded the dishwasher.
> Felice
You've touched a sore point here, Fleece. He unloaded the dishwasher.
Excellent. Did he put them away after removing them from the
dishwasher? In the correct place so that when you needed to use
something it was where you expected to find it?
As you may have (with your advanced intuitive powers, I'm shooah)
deduced that's "a bit of an ish-yew" here. I swear to Alex that HWSNBN
is trying his damndest to get fired from the task (a self-imposed task,
may I hasten to add). There is nearly always at least one thing that
either doesn't get put away or is put away SOMEWHERE IT DOES NOT BELONG,
HAS NEVER BEEN STORED, NOR WILL EVER BE STORED.
I've tried to analyze this problem rationally and the best I can come up
with is that he really does not give a rat's ass where he puts something
because he doesn't have to look for it ‹ I do the meal prep. He just
doesn't care. And it appears that he doesn't care that it annoys the
hell out of me. Passive aggressive.
Yeah, I know there are more important things to fuss about but it was
his sister who said to me (about her husband), "If you want to *help*
me, do what I tell you to do when I tell you to do it, the way I want
you to do it. If you do not do that, if you say you'll do it in a half
hour or when you're done with whatever, *you're not helping me.*" I
think she had a point or two.
--
-Barb, Mother Superior, HOSSSPoJ
http://www.jamlady.eboard.com;pics of my no-knead bread posted
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Ophelia
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 379
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 11:15 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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The Ranger wrote:
> Lou Decruss wrote in message
> @4ax.com...
> [snip]
>> So assuming most readers here are the primary
>> household cook...What things to you have your
>> spouse/significant other help you out with?
>
> Baking is SWMBO's domain. I can but, as you pointed out in your
> article, "she gets the butter amount right." I'll clean-up if
> she bakes. Daughter-unit Alpha is her second. Daughter-unit
> Beta and Spawn are my seconds. We're more "free-spirited" when
> viewing recipes. "Good enough" is often heard when we're
> cooking.
Balm to the soul to hear such things:) |
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John Kane
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 80
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:30 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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Melba's Jammin' wrote:
> In article ,
> "Felice" wrote:
>
>> pitched in. But best of all, he always unloaded the dishwasher.
>
>> Felice
>
> You've touched a sore point here, Fleece. He unloaded the dishwasher.
> Excellent. Did he put them away after removing them from the
> dishwasher? In the correct place so that when you needed to use
> something it was where you expected to find it?
>
> As you may have (with your advanced intuitive powers, I'm shooah)
> deduced that's "a bit of an ish-yew" here. I swear to Alex that HWSNBN
> is trying his damndest to get fired from the task (a self-imposed task,
> may I hasten to add). There is nearly always at least one thing that
> either doesn't get put away or is put away SOMEWHERE IT DOES NOT BELONG,
> HAS NEVER BEEN STORED, NOR WILL EVER BE STORED.
>
> I've tried to analyze this problem rationally and the best I can come up
> with is that he really does not give a rat's ass where he puts something
> because he doesn't have to look for it ‹ I do the meal prep. He just
> doesn't care. And it appears that he doesn't care that it annoys the
> hell out of me. Passive aggressive.
Well if he never needs to look for it then he probably does not even
realise that the item is in the wrong place. You find them obviously
If some of the things are not used regularly he may be making some kind
of best guess based on some favourite fantasy since he probably does not
remember where they were put 3-4 weeks ago.
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Tracy
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 31
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:32 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potatoes? |
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Goomba38 wrote:
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> We're pretty good at whipping the house into order for entertaining,
> pitching in with food prep, and cleaning up after dinners and parties.
> What impresses me is that I might (or did at first) suggest what needed
> to be done, he is long past needing that guidance now. For the standard
> weeknight plan it has evolved unspoken that one of us cooks and the
> other cleans. And his cooking skills have grown enormously over the
> years I've known him.
>
> And if ever there is something of a nuisance task or errand I don't want
> to do, as long as I'm in the kitchen cooking when I ask-I can ask get
> him to do almost anything I want!
> Manipulative? Sure...but he seems not to mind.
Almost identical to my situation except I think my SO cooks more than I
do now. We've been married 20 years and for at least the first 15 I did
almost all of the cooking. He usually takes stuff out of the freezer -
which also determines who is going to cook. If he takes out lamb - I am
cooking. If he takes out chicken - most likely he is cooking. If it is
any sort of seafood - he is definitely cooking it!
I usually clean up after him and he cleans up after me. He gets a
better deal since I usually clean as I go. He just makes a gigantic mess.
Tracy |
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ChattyCathy
Joined: 01 Aug 2007 Posts: 167
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Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 1:36 am Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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Lou Decruss wrote:
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> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
DH is pretty handy in the kitchen. He *always* trims/cuts up meat for me
- and he can take over most of the cooking/prep when necessary. He makes
great salad dressings - much better than mine. We work well together in
the kitchen - which is a another reason I married him We love
planning our meals and he joins in with the 'recipe hunt' when we feel
like a change... He's not wild about doing dishes (but he will if he has
to - we don't have a DW). Oh, he takes out the garbage (without me
having to ask).
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Cheers
Chatty Cathy
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Tracy
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 31
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:39 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potatoes? |
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Melba's Jammin' wrote:
> In article ,
>
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> As you may have (with your advanced intuitive powers, I'm shooah)
> deduced that's "a bit of an ish-yew" here. I swear to Alex that HWSNBN
> is trying his damndest to get fired from the task (a self-imposed task,
> may I hasten to add). There is nearly always at least one thing that
> either doesn't get put away or is put away SOMEWHERE IT DOES NOT BELONG,
> HAS NEVER BEEN STORED, NOR WILL EVER BE STORED.
>
>
I have one of those....drives me up a wall! And it's not just things
that are not used very often. He will put a measuring cup with the
glassware. Sheesh.
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Miche
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Posted: Tue Feb 26, 2008 12:41 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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In article ,
Lou Decruss wrote:
> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
He doesn't interfere with the food while I'm cooking it.
Miche
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MareCat
Joined: 26 Jul 2007 Posts: 29
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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"Lou Decruss" wrote in message @4ax.com...
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> So assuming most readers here are the primary household cook...What
> things to you have your spouse/significant other help you out with?
I do *all* the cooking in our house except for grilling and smoking. That's
what DH and I both prefer. He knows I love to cook and need cooking as a
creative outlet, and he's a bit too intimidated in the kitchen to just whip
up a dinner for all of us (although he did prepare an excellent pad thai
years ago for me on Valentine's Day and has promised to recreate the meal
sometime soon).
He usually cleans up the kitchen after dinner while I give our twin toddlers
their baths. It all works well for us.
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MareCat
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Posted: Mon Feb 25, 2008 6:42 pm Post subject: Re: Honey...Will You Peel The Potaoes? |
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"Melba's Jammin'" wrote in message @news.iphouse.com...
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> Staying the hell out of my way when I'm cooking. If you have to hang
> out in the kitchen while I'm cooking, just sit on the chair and look
> pretty. Do not pace back and forth while you're talking. If you want
> to help, set the table and pour the cold beverages a bit in advance, not
> when I'm putting the serving dishes on the table, please.
>
> I'm a benevolent dictator.
I'm the same way. Stay outta my way when I'm cooking!
Mary
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